Hi Clif, You probably already have the information you are looking for but my great great grandfather Peter Parker of Milton, Gravesend was the brother of an Ellen Parker who married a John Arnold of Dartford in 1851 in Gravesend. At the time of the 1851 Census John Arnold is living with the Parker family and had yet to marry Ellen. They marry and have 6 known children. Ellen dies of TB on Nov. 22, 1868 about one year after giving birth to the last 2 children - twin boy and girl. John then marries Ellen's younger sister Amelia on Jan. 16, 1870 in Southwark, Surrey. John is said to be a 39 year old Bricklayer, son of George Arnold. Ellen and Amelia Parker are the daughters of Daniel Parker, a Waterman possibly of Milton, Gravesend and Elizabeth Ball of Dartford. Daniel dies before the Census of 1841. Maybe this is your Ellen Parker. Sue