Thanks for your help! I had found some of the marriage info but not the date. According to the 1880 census, Henry and Eliza Haire arrived in NY 4/29/1880. Subsequently they had 8 children, 6 of whom survived to adulthood. Henry Haire died in 1898 according to nyc records. Perhaps the others listed in the mail may be cousins? is there any other information about the parents of Eliza Martin and Henry Haire?