I am trying to find evidence of my gggrandmother Mary Cole and her family. She was born around 1819 according to her death certificate. Her mother was Mary Bowler or Bowden. Her father was Captain James Cole, Enniskillen Dragoon Guards, and allegedly the oldest son and heir of the Earl of Enniskillen. Her mother died right after Mary was born and her father died in a hunting accident when she was young. She was cared for by the Bowler family in England and eventually married James Oldham who helping in his family business in Cork. James was the son of Thomas Oldham the linen merchant from England. The family eventually immigrated with their children to Auckland, New Zealand.