I have a James Killinder who married Anne Burdon in Birr, Ireland in 1864. Both were 24 years of age. They moved to Lancashire following the marriage then began raising a family of five. Most of the children died at an early age in Lancaster and Birr (Parsonstown) Anne died 31st July 1872 aged 32 in Ballindarra Birr where her parents lived. I thought it was my James who married Alice Aspinall and adoped her son who was re-named Killinder. What do you think?