My mother's name was Loakman but I could not connect her to Annie Loakman who married Martin Butler. When I visited the graveyard I took photos of any graves that might be connected. Martin's grave was beside the grave of Annie's sisters Jane and Florence their mother Mary, stepfather John Farrell and a stepbrother Joseph. Mary was Mary Neal or Neill who was married to James Loakman(son of Patrick) in 1875. James was a soldier at time of marriage and he died violently(accident with pitchfork) 25/02/1880 and Mary remarried John Farrell in 1885. There is no mention of the Loakman name on this headstone.