My great grandmothers birth name was Phyllils Hay, her father Mountiford Hay and mother Emma or Louisa Becker. She changed her surname to Leigh, was an actress,, stage name Lavender Leigh. She had my grandfather, Raymond and left him with neighbours, he went by the surname Leigh. Phyllis Hay/Leigh married Raymond Seaton Dane and she had other children by him, and maybe other children with other fathers. Raymond Seaton Dane went to South Africa in 1915, I think Phyllis went to the USA, as an actress in 1930.She apparantly lived in Ireland and she died in a home for retired actors in London England. I would love to find other children of Phyllis and know more about her and her family. Her father or grandfather, both Mountiford Hays, were actors, lived at the Warehouse Theatre, LOndon.