Hi Sandra
Thank you for your help....It is all cleared up now and finally I know.....
The confusion seems to have been because Stinchcombe was her first married name, she was actuall y a widow when she married James Hodges.......
I guess no on e knew this and I only have an Aunt of 93 left on that side...and she definaatly didnt know, so with help from other "Hodges" it is now clear..
Many Thanks
Joyce Pickup