I appreciate all of your help... I hope you realize that :)
I'll take your advice and give myself time. No doubt the writing will eventually begin to become more familiar to me.
One positive note: today I called the church where Cornelia Morenics and Joseph Gajdos attended services (and hopefully were married). They told me to just fax them the questions I have with the names, dates, etc. They will also accept the same letter at the cemetery to try and find if they have the names of villages, etc. as well as Cornelia's mother's maiden name.
I mentioned I had been phoning the cemetery for 3 days with no answer and no voicemail. They said that there was no voicemail and there is only someone in the office in the early mornings. Since I am not an early morning person (especially with being online late into the night) they suggested the fax and told me they would be looking for it and will answer as quickly as possible.
That might be able to save me some extra searching in the wrong areas...I can only hope.