HI Thanks for your reply but Anthony BENWAY and wife Paulina ? where living in Oswego Co. NY in 1850 and onwards in Granby up until at least 1875 when Anthony disappears.
It seems as though it is just too hard to connect these things up as I do not have a death obit or other information on Anthony and Paulina in Oswego (or anywhere else). So this research has hit the proverbial brick wall. kind regards Dianna