I am Facebook friends with your aunt Angie, so she provided me with a bunch of information on your branch of the family. Your grandfather is Calvin James Nowe Jr. You and I are 5th cousins which means we have common 4th Great Grandparents...Johann Conrad Nowe (1776-1829) and Maria Magdalena Kaulbach (1781-1866).
On my info. from your aunt Angie, she did not include your father's name. And she was waiting for information from your mom's cousin Sandra.