OK-- Sorry. James Roy Grant (tombstone reads "James R Grant Elder") 1799-1879. John J. Grant 1838-1881. I have pictures of both those stones and I think they are next to each other. (John J.'s also has dtr Caroline on it).
I don't know what Alex's dates are. Just want to know if there is an Alex in the same area of the cemetery. Hoping for a family plot. I have a list of Alexanders buried there and none seem right, so I really don't know what to tell you except that he had to be old enough to father a child by 1799.