these very easily could be my relatives - I know that we were told that my grandfather John (son of Donald and grandson of Niel) and his siblings were born in Dalkeith.
I don't know about Rachel - but Niel could have been married before Catherine/Cathine, but we don't really have any information about that, it is all very sketchy - on how much older Niel was than Cathine, so the dates that I have have been 'guestimated' from a number of factors.
If the stone for Neil McIntosh it may mean that some descendants have been caring/paying for the updating so maybe we could get some information from them, if we can find out who they are?
If you live in the area, could you let me know who looks after the parish/cemetery and upkeep so I could investigate that lead.
Thanks so much for the help Anne