I would love have access to your information. I think maybe this man is my great-great-grandfather. At least, he's the only contender left after I eliminated all the other possibilities. The names you listed all line up with information I have.
According to the 1900 census, he was born in 1823. Did his father maybe have the same name? Although in 1900, the census has "my" M Wade with his second wife, Nancy. He's living with Frank Wade and wife Celema/Clementine. I'll be glad to share what I have.