IF you're still looking for this obit, there is a volunteer at www.gengathering.com
. You do have to create a user ID and password to enter this web site, however, access to the volunteer info is free. He/she is listed under California, All Counties.
If that doesn't work out, you can contact the Napa City/County Library, www.countyofnapa.org/Pages/Department.aspx?id=215
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