IF you're still looking for this obit, you will find a volunteer at www.gengathering.com
. You do need to create a user ID and password to enter this web site but access to the volunteer info is free. He/she is listed under California, Any County.
If that doesn't work out, you can contact the Napa City-County Library, www.countyofnapa.org/Pages/Department.aspx?id-215
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