Thank you very much. I think I will pursue the marriage and death record from the town hall. And yes, sadly my gg grandmother Ellen was living at the Connecticut Valley Hospital in Middlesex county in the year 1900. It is a very sad story as I think she may have been in this hospital for over 30 years. I got the hospital to send me her records from 1873. That is amazing on so many levels. It claims she suffered from melancholy from having too many kids (12 that I have found). I know that would make me want to be hospitalized too.