Thank you so much for the new information! I had Nicey's last name as Clemmens so either that information was wrong, or perhaps so had been married previously. John's father's name is Adam. He died in New Bern. Thank you again for your time and effort. If you do run across the burial I'd appreciate you letting me know. The Darling's seem to have been big into shipbuilding and haven't quite figured it all out, but some are in the Port Jefferson New York area where John's mother was buried. You've helped me put some of the pieces together and I do appreciate it. If you have any genealogy needs in Minnesota let me help and I will do what I can.