Would that have been Aunt Reba? I sort of remember going to her home in Old Saybrook...was it green? I keep in touch with Carey's girls on FB. I really want to know. you are related biologically though aren't you? I thought that grandma (Berte) was your mum so you and mom are half brother and sister? Either way - you're still my uncle freddy. And I do remember you! I just know that throught the years mom just wouldn't say anything much about her upbringing - she still gets very defensive. As i said - I am not judging...I just want to know. Hugs!