I believe the grandson you refer to is my brother. I'm pretty sure that there was no obituary, and probably no death notice either. Betty died when I was 8 so that was around 1990. There was no funeral and she was cremated, and dad has her ashes. My dad was very close to her, but honestly through life she had alienated herself from friends and family, but such is the case on my dads side of the family. There are tons of secrets and hidden stories that my dad doesn't know, or talk about. And honestly and sadly, he doesn't want to know any of his family's past, but that hasn't stopped me in my searches. Any info you might have would be awesome to know. Thanks.