there is a Benjamin B Gudge in Netherbury Dorset in the 1851 census
his parents where George & Mary Ann nee Bartlett and he was born abt 1834 in Netherbury, the 1851 says that his occupation was a carpenter's App.
There is a Benjamin Bartlett Gudge on the IGI who married Anna Steele 28.10.1855 st John the baptist Shoreditch London
presumably George's wife had passed away as I have a wedding for George's 2nd wedding in 1854
George also had a son Isaac and a daughter Ann with him on the 1851
if I can be of any help please let me know