Please help...Valeda Edith Downing, born Sept 1889, in Rosalia, Butler County Kansas, died in Stafford Ks and is buried in Stafford Cemetery. The Cemetery listing does not show a date of death. She was married to J.G Tretbar, whom also is buried at Stafford. I am unable to even find an obit, with no date of death. Help appreciated. Her parents were Charles P Downing and Alma Worth Nesbet. They are also buried at Stafford Cemetery