Jane Fleming (1778-1854) and Eli Hand (1779-1857) are my wife's 3G grandparents.
I note your message is very old, but perhaps you have found an answer to the Jane Fleming - Eli Hand question. They are clearly in my wife lineage, but documentation of Jane Fleming's parentage has been elusive. We have record of the marriage bond witnessed by a James Fleming in Washington County, Kentucky , but not the marriage. I wonder if you have any more information since your posting. Recent DNA analysis indicates the Fleming line contains Bollings and Champes.
Thank you for any new insight on this question.