Looking for Info On Mary Etta Wilbur. often went by Mary E, and later Etta M. This is what I do Know: Raided by calvin and Georgianna Winn family of cape Neddick, from sometime before 1870. She 1st married Henry W. Donnell in 1884, they had two Children, winnie and Henry jr. Husband Henry Drowned in 1886. She then Married Joseph Joy of South Berwick, she then left two Donnell children with the Winn family, and Had 3 children with Joseph Joy, two sons, both named Ormand died before adulthood and daughter Ruby lived till the mid 1970s.
I Don't need Census info,I have all that.
WHAT I WANT TO FIND OUT IS: what happened to Mary after 1900 census and 1906 when Joseph states he is divorced and gets married to his 2nd wife. She may have married a George E. Stevens in 1903 in North Berwick, but this is seems like another Etta M.Wilbur., as this one is a nurse and is 4 years younger.