Thank you, and I have been on all of the sites you mention, I have death records of him and her and yes Dolphus and Adolphus and Rhdolphus are all the same person.
However, I found two records listed for kids that are not listed in your list.
Lelia, her 2nd marriage listed her parents as Dolphus smith and Tamson Lockwood.
Cordelias death record listed her as dying at the age of 19 and again the same parents are listed. my question was and is Is cordelia actually Mary and is Lelia actually Celia. I suspect that they were. but needed someone else to see if they came to the same conclusion before spending time looking for them in the death and Marriage records. Some one has Gracie listed as Cordelia but then where does Mary C. fit in. No records for her at all, not even death records.