Lucretia's surname was not Packwood but Lee. Her mother was Elvira Packwood who married A J Lee in Barry county, Missouri on May 24, 1866. Elvira's parents were John Ira Packwood and Abigail Tinder, married in Indiana in 1832.
Lucretia Lee married Walter Ragsdale in Cassville, Barry County, Missouri on Oct 3, 1901.
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