David,
Thanks you for looking at this for me, but unfortunately neither is my family. My great great grandfather John H. McDonald remarried in 1891 Margaret Vanderpool daughter of Aden C. Vanderpool. Because of this his first wife would have to have died prior to that year. Maybe some of the unmarked graves might have been her's, so I really appreciate you having a look there for me.

The only other thing that I can think of is maybe she ran off with another man and that might be why the family never mentioned her name. I don't really know, but it has been very frustrating trying to find this woman. The only other clue to her name is that I found a long time ago a John McDonald age 19 and a Mary McDonald age 18 on a ship together leaving Scotland, about the right time that my John left Scotland, which would have been around 1880. Thank you so much for having a look for me in these records. I really appreciate it.
Joy Engel