The following may provide you with an obit.
On omahaobits dot wordpress dot com slash how to-obtain-obit-copies (leave out spaces and replace the word dot with . and the word slash with /)
There is an email address in option 2
In the email, tell her you did not find it listed in Omaha Obits, but the info you found in OBITUARY DAILY TIMES 1995-2012, lets you know that the obit appeared in the Omaha World Herald on 10 Feb 1997 and 11 Feb 1997, and ask if she can send you a copy and what would the price be.