Hi Gerry,
Here is what I didn't find: birth info on Tobias and Mary's children being born in Hudson, or any info on Felix, James or Fannie.
Here is what I did find:
A Mary Connell married a David Ford 1/11/1865; Robert Connell, son of Tobias and Mary married Mary E. Marshall, dau. of Henry Marshall and Mary Rogers 12/6/1879. They may have married in Pelham, but lived in Hudson. Philip Connell, son of Tobias and Mary married a Jennie Buttress, dau. of William Buttress and Annie McCullough 7/3/1911.
Philip J. Connell died 11/25/1920 age 68; Robert T. Connell died 7/4/1944 age 89.
The following births are children of Robert Connell and Lizzie M. Marshall ( I am assuming she was named Mary Elizabeth, but called Lizzie); Carrie 5/24/1882; Ethel 5/15/1890; Mabel 12/29/1884 (died 4/17/1906); Otis 7/14/1880 (died 3/22/1942 in Nashua).
Mabel married Daniel Wentworth 6/3/1903; Carrie married Arnold Andrew 5/24/1901; Ethel married Ekmer Smith 9/7/1910; Otis married Lucy Longard 11/24/1904.
At Ford Cemetery in Hudson, NH are buried Tobias (6/21/1875); Mary (6/14/1892); Margaret (10/9/1853 age 6 yrs)
and Mary (11/8/1853 age 11 yrs). I have photos of all graves but Margaret's. There are stones that are damaged and hers may be one.
At Sunnyside Cemetery in Hudson, NH are buried Robert T. Connell (born 4/17/1855 - died?) and Mary E., his wife (b. 2/12/1861 - d. 10/30/1904. I also have photos of their graves.
Please let me have your email address, so I can send you the pictures. Also, do you have any info on the family of Mary Huffman? Could it have been Hoffman? Did she have a brother George?
Shanon