Looking for information on my grandfather Oscar Gilbert who lived in Asbury Park, New Jersey with a lady named Grace. My father, Edgar Gilbert was the son of Oscar Gilbert. Oscar Gilbert was originally from upstate New York..he deserted his family and went to New Jersey where he worked for a Newspaper. Oscar would deceased in the late 50's or 60's. He was Catholic..we would like any information we could find regarding where he is buried, the newspaper he had worked for..any little bits would help piece our family puzzle together...Oscar's first wife was extremely ill and my father and his sister Irene lived with their Grandmother Gangon in Ogdensburg, New York