Thank you so much. That's closer than I've ever gotten. I know Mathew's wife was Mary Mathew died at 56 years old so was born around 1864.
One son was Joseph. My Grandfather did legally change his name I beleive before he enlisted in the Nat'l Guard, I beleive it was he and his sister that were born in Huntington, LI. The rest I beleive were all born in Lithuania.