Thank u so much for the info and I completely overlooked that clue as well as your offer for the obits!
I do have Alfrida and Allen's obits but I have been unable to locate her husband's, Gustave Bernard Fager, who I think died in 1961 and one for her other son Edwin P Fager who died March 1986.
Are they on that link you sent me? I tried using it but was unable to find anything.
Did you get a special training to learn how to do all this?
Thanks again for spending so much time being so helpful. I've only been doing this since April of 2011 so I have a lot to learn still!