thank you for your great reply. I have tried all those. I think they were on the poorer side...they lived in Vinegar Hill but he had what I'd think was a good job as a blacksmith.
Have you been to the Surrogates Court? I went over the summer to find another GGG's will - and I found a ton of info in that! Such as a deceased first wife and a son left behind to be raised by his late wife's brother. Good stuff. They were super helpful there too.
Unfortunately, I don't have even one sibling or parent's name for her. It is SO frustrating!