One odd thing - I am finding a few Probate notices for 'Cornelia Terwilliger' - died March 8, 1936.
Cornelia Terwilliger of 145 Villa Avenue, Yonkers; died March 8 at (G)oshen (first letter cut off).
The executrix is a niece - Marjory Tice. Monies are left to nieces/nephews John, Arthur, Grant Terwilliger, Edna De Gomvo and Jessie Harris.
NOWHERE are the children of John and Cornelia Romer mentioned - not even grandchildren (if any).
Could this be an entirely different Cornelia Terwilliger than the one that married John Romer?
The probate notices were all found on fultonhistory.com using the search phrase: cornelia terwilliger.
Hmmm? Don't ya love these jigsaw puzzles? :)