The only Amos V.Lanning (1822-1888)I have was married to Jane Rolfe.(1820-1893) Could be the same Amos with a different wife?Or relation to your Amos perhaps? I have two daughters listed as theirs. He and Jane are buried in Rolfe Cemetery on Applegate Road in the Town of Enfield ( Ithaca address now). Have you been to or seen the listings for Grove Cemetery in Trumansburg? All these Tompkins county cemeteries are listed on the Tompkins county genweb site, http://www.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~nytompki/