Hi I have been researching since last night. This is the information that I have found on Rufus Ham born 1859 in Ashe NC. Rufus was married to Mary Elizabeth Neaves born in 1864. This Mary Elizabeth is the sister to St Ledger aka Sean Neaves daughter to Jane and Henry Waddell. My Mary Elizabeth Neaves is the daughter to Sean and Martha Blackburn Neaves. There is tombstones of Henry Neaves, Sean, Martha and Mry Elizabeth Neaves Baldwin my grandparents and g grandparents. Also my parents ar buried there. So we are kin. Any information I can help you on let me know. MAry Lou Huffman. Marylu.firstname.lastname@example.org
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