It sounds like you are searching for George McCamy Ballew,b. 20 Jun 1830 in North Carolina, d. aft 1896 in Putnam County, North Carolina (sometime after his 3rd marriage.)
His parents were William Ballew, b. abt 1805 NC d. Putnam Co., Indina and Synthia (Cynthia) Elliott. William Ballew's parents have never been found that I know of from record; Synthia Ballew's parents were Nimrod Elliott and Elizabeth Conley. (Nimrod's 2nd wife was Rebecca Gibbs.)
McCamy Ballew married 3 times: Hannah Sutton,Margaret Jane Douglass, and Mary Trail.