Hello Joseph,
I'm not a member of the House family, but my ancestors are from Cabarrus/Stanly county and include some Dry, Reed and Faggert families.
I see Joel House in the 1840, 1850 and 1860 Census - sounds like you have this info. Do you have any dates on Wiley House? I see a Willie House in 1830 for Wake County, NC but don't know if this is your guy.
Cathy