Since you primarily wanted information on survivors that is most of what I've provided. If you want the whole obit let me know and I'll get it for you. It gives a fairly detailed background of his career.
Sunday July 14, 1985 Charlotte Observer
Eugene McEver died Friday at home of a stroke. He was 76 and a resident of 302 South Street, Davidson. Funeral services are today at 3:00 p.m. at the Davidson College Presbyterian Church. Burial is in Mimosa Cemetery, Davidson, NC.
Survivors include wife Joyce of Davidson, NC; sons George McEver of Orlando, Fla.; John McEver of Ellicott City, MD; Jim McEver of Portland, Oregon; and Tom McEver of Concord, NC. He is also survived by brother Macauley McEver of Blacksburg, Va.; sister Mrs. T.C. Alley of Cleveland, Ohio and 7 grandchildren (no names).