Sherwood Ross first wife was Mary Snider, Marriage date is March 18, 1855. Mary had four children with Sherwood that I know of. Two are buried in the same cemetery as Mary, Bivens-Ross Cemetery in Lanes Creek, NC. You can access it on the Internet w/picture of Mary's grave. After Mary died Sherwood married Drucilla Bivens. Sherwood's childen with Mary are Mary E., John E, Sherwood F. Ross and Martin Ross.
The first two died at a very young age. Sherwood F. Ross in 1889.