We must be cousins. My Mother was a Willoughby! My Grandfather was James Erastus Willougby and his Father was as well. I don't know if James E. married
I have Friley married to Nancy Collins but I can find no more on her what so ever. I was told that she might have be a Native American, but haven't found anything yet.
As for Friley, I have his parents as Solomon White born in 1805 in Plymouth, NC. He and his wfie Louisa (Last name unknown) had three children, Friley, Wilson and Edward. If there are others, we haven't found them yet. Solomon's Father was William White, known to have died in 1823 and his Mother's name was Asha, last name unkown. That is all I have so far going back. Have a lot going forward from there though.
I would love to share information with you and see where we are related.