Well, I certainly had fun looking for the Reams. I like a challenge, but you have the greatest challenge trying to sort out the burials at Butcher Cemetery. It is sad when so much history is lost because of a neglected cemetery. Good luck with your quest.
PS. I just put together your initials with the name I saw at findgrave and usgwarchives. Turns out I was giving you back your own information. :-)