Beth- Hello- I have been doing some research into my dad's side of the family. I think the Joseph you're looking for was my great grandfather. John J, one of Joseph and Mary's children, was my grandfather. I knew Mary Evans Dulin Destan. She married Matthew Destan, an immigrant from Turkey. I've been chasing down leads on Joseph. He died in 1918 in the Great Influenza Epidemic. I have a picture of Joseph and Mary! Glad to find you on here...I hope we can help each other add some branches!