Actually, Matt, I DO have my psychic moments; have been like that since I was a kid - seriously. ;-) It used to really spook my parents too. LOL!
Don't give up yet! You're so close...
[BTW - I still have the same e-mail address, do you?]
That Norma J Sutton on that private tree was born in Bellflower, CA. I know that your Norma was born in Columbus. Wouldn't hurt to e-mail that individual and inquire about the Norma on his tree though, just to rule it in/out.
Based on some snooping I did when I got home from work, I think we can rule out the Norma J Sutton info I found in Eugene, OR this morning.
Me thinks your Norma lived in Hesperia, CA, Junction City, OR, Lynnwood, WA, Waldport, OR, and Seattle. This Norma would be 79 (right age); whether she's still alive, I'm not sure. So that's why I'd suggest you e-mail that private tree owner [if you haven't already] to see if they do have the same Norma J and are just confused about where she was born.
In the meantime, I 'think' I just found her [Norma] husband's name...how about you e-mail me privately, Matt. DON'T get your hopes up too high, but I'm working something [another angle] on it....