Marty: Thank you very much for taking the time to research this!! Katherine .F. Crilly who was married to Calvin Crilly was born around 1856, but they had a daughter named Katherine (named after her mother), and she must be the one you found in the Cherokee Cemetary. The dates for C.J. sound correct. They may have lived in Ingersoll, OK which I know is near Cherokee. Is it true Ingersoll is a ghost town now? Thanks again!!