Ebben Hayes is my 3rd great grand uncle according to Family Tree Maker 2011.
His brother Henry H. Hayes marreid my 3rd great grandmother Marina Dew.
Ebben married Marina Dews sister Nancy Dew (1806 - 1870)
I believe that these two had a Ebben Jr. and Jessee H. Hayes would be Juniors brother.
I don't have the information your seeking, but maybe what I have will help lead you down another path that does help.