That is amazing, so many different stories. Apparently his wife did not know he was killed, because she filed for divorce from him in 1904 and remarried the same day. She stated that he had not been heard from since June 1901. I have a photo of Joel and Julia, but not one with any of the children. I also have a photo of Fred and Madres; probably their wedding photo.
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