Hi I'm going to start with the Barham in the 1850 census.

1850>Tennessee>Carroll>Dist1
Barham James H. 33 farmer North Carolina
Barham Malinda J. 33 North Carolina
Barham Sarah M. 8 Tenn
Barham Martha E. 6 Tenn
Barham Catharine O. 5 Tenn
Barham Adaline C. 2 Tenn
Barham Ophilia E. 1 Tenn
Vanderford John R. 18 N.C.

1850>Tennessee>Carroll>Dist2
Barham Sowell 43 farming N.C.
Barham Jane 43 N.C.
Barham Prudence 18 N.C.
Barham Hannah 16 N.C.
Barham John 15 N.C.
Barham Sarah C. 11 N.C.
Barham Elizabeth 8 N.C.
Barham Mary M. 6 N.C.
Barham Charles H. 4 Tenn

1850>Tennessee>Carroll>Dist6
Barham Thomas 65 farming Virginia
Barham Sarah 58 North Carolina
Barham Sarah 20 Tennessee

!850>Tennessee>Carroll Dist6
Barham John 38 farming
Barham P.L. 32 North Carolina
Barham Joseph M. 10 Tenn
Barham Marietta A. 9 Tenn
Barham Hartwell 7 Tenn
Barham Margaret B. 6 Tenn
Barham John M. 2 Tenn
Cox John W. 22 North Carolina
McKinay Newton 19 Tenn

1850>Tennessee>Carroll>Dist6
Barham Thomas C. 22 farming North Carolina
Barham Louisa 22 Tenn

1850>Tennessee>Carroll>Dist6
Barham A.J. 30 farming North Carolina
Barham Clarinda 22 Tenn
Barham Mary 4 Tenn
Barham Thomas 2 Tenn
Barham Cassandra 4 months Tenn
Fletcher George 35 farmong North Carolina

1850>Tennessee>Carroll>Dist9
Barham T. 50 farming North Carolina
Barham Elizabeth 49 N.C.
Barham Ardelia A.V. 18 N.C.
Barham Newton J. 13 Tenn
Barham Susan E.T. 10 Tenn

!850>Tennessee>Carroll>Dist9
Barham William H. 22 farming North Carolina
Barham Sophia 21 Tenn
Barham William T. 7 months Tenn

Cody Charles 65
Cody Mary A. 33
Cody John S. 23
Cody Martha L. J. 14
Cody C.W. 2
Barham Nancy E. 30
Barham Frances H. 6
Barham John 3
Barham TWW. 4

I believe Nancy is the daughter of Charles Cody as I found a Nancy E. Cody marriage to Joseph A. Barham 11 Sept 1843. Joseph is not listed in census. I will try to find the answer.

1850>Tennessee>Carroll>DIst16
Barham John A. 36 farming North Carolina
Barham Mary A. 20 Tenn
Barham Benjamin N. 2 Tenn

I did find Barham marriages and I will send them in the next email. If you would like to email me directly, it is kjowilson@yahoo.com Kim