Helen is my great-aunt. My mother is Mary Ann Daniels Parrish. Her father was George, Aunt Helen's brother. If you would like to see my branch of the tree, feel free to check it out. My user name is sweeney91. Aunt Helen was married to Victor Stacy Lilly and had three children, Janice, James and Lee. Apparently she left her husband and children behind and started a new family with Henry Whitely, whom I gather is your father?
Hope this helps!