Hi John, I can find no historical records showing Emanuel P Stedman as the brother of Asa or as the son of Job Stedman and Margaret Sweet. Do you have references that show this? Also, I can find no death references for Emanuel or his wife Phebe. Last reference for Emanuel is the 1870 US Census (in Winona, MN) and last for Phebe is 1875 Mn census Iin Winona).