You had mentioned you had info on the siblings. Was Eli
b. abt. 1859 the oldest of the children? He is listed as a servant for the Marshall family in Waterbury, age 21 and his
sister, Melinda is a servant also, age 14. The spelling of
the last name for 1880 Waterbury census was ETHER.
Thanking you for any further info.
White River Jct., VT